I just read a good article in the April issue of Fast Company titled Polarize Me. The subtitle is "If you want people to like you, first decide who needs to hate you." The authors Dan & Chip Heath talk about how in marketing too many companies have a "Fear of saying to much. Fear of saying something clever that someone might think is stupid. Fear of saying something revealing that might turn someone off." They try not to exclude anyone and in the process bore everyone. Marketing guru Seth Godin said the same thing in his great book Purple Cow and in the Fast Company article he wrote, In Praise of the Purple Cow. According to Godin in Purple Cow, "criticism comes to those who stand out, if no one hates your brand then no one is a big fan either." Many companies want everyone to like them and are thus not differentiating themselves enough to make an impact, to stand out, to make people passionate about them.
In Polarize Me, the Heaths comment on how "fear of being disliked afflicts marketers" who fear making bold statements that may alienate customers as well as their boss other senior management. This marketing fear is also found in corporate communications and e-learning. Companies are afraid to tell powerful stories that make an impact for fear of alienating someone, whether customer or employee. So most corporate stories e-learning courses are vanilla-ized. Many times either myself or colleagues have presented ideas for story-based e-learning concepts that are a bit edgy, or identify an issue the company is having. These concepts tell it like it really is rather than candy coating things and the client comes back with "That's a great idea, but we don't want to highlight that event because it was a failure" or "we are very conservative and don't communicate that way" or "lets tone that down" (all are other ways of saying vanilla-ize it). What they want is to simply present information. What is being missed is that emotional impact captures people's attention, creates passion, and helps them retain information. It's not a timid brand communication like "timeless flavor of classic, authentic iced tea", its a message that says "if 'high-fructose corn syrup' on the label doesn't make you cringe, we don't want you." And its not a real learning story when we tell how employee John Doe appropriately processes a customer request. A real story is how John Doe botched up an order request, angered the customer, then figured out to to correct the situation and make the customer happy again. Thats real life learning.